The guys who responded to my earlier edging blog posts have got it right -- edging isn't about the payoff at the end (though, I'm not complaining about that :-) ), it's much more about giving yourself the chance to explore yourself and your body by stretching out what is normally a fairly brief experience (in my case very brief) and stretching it out into a highly pleasurable experience that is so much more than just "get there!"

The key to edging is to maintain the feeling, the horniness, the need to come over time -- and that takes both practice and a growing knowledge of how your mind and body respond to physical stimuli such as your hands, a plug, a sleeve (not my fave), a sound; and to visual/auditory stimuli -- the porn on the screen in front of you. Porn is absolutely not necessary, but it does put fuel on the fire and helps you maintain the tension and urge throughout your session.

Each session is different for me, so it will start in a different area or type of image or video -- for example, it started with additions to my Pillows collection, but I was able to keep things going in a different direction when a voyeur collection of cute butts in shorts popped up in my newsfeed. In a normal jo session, the first couple pics would have been instant -- over to the sink, but after time I've learned when I need to go "hands off" after a few minutes. While enjoying this gallery, I'm always thinking ahead to what will turn me on when the buzz for this one begins to fade. It's as much mental as physical.