Firstly, I am Selek. I live in Johannesburg South Africa.

I am a normal single guy who plays tennis and paddle ball for sport, I enjoy gardening and music ( I play the piano) and of course I enjoy reading about others an their kinks and adventures on Flikr! and Imagefap! I am open minded and fun!

I welcome couples from Johannesburg that would like to chat or possibly even meet for a drink. 

Candaulism and its fascination.

I wonder if I am not the only one who not only enjoys Candaulism, where one drives sexual pleasure from looking at pictures of another man’s wife dressed up or dressed down but also has the fantasy for being able to enjoy her in person in the same way by pleasuring one’s self while watching her try on sexy outfits or underwear and swim wear. There are a multitude of ways in which to go about a "real life" Candaulst fantasy. This could also involve watching videos of her made by her husband during some very naughty activities! 

I have in fact experienced this activity once before with a married couple (Hot-wife & Stag) who would visit me for her pleasure every month. I bought her lingerie and various underwear, and so did her husband from time to time. She would try it on for us while we watched her and pleasured ourselves to her beauty and sex-appeal. Needless to say, she absolutely loved it and it added some saucy spice to our sex that night. We actually discovered this activity quite by accident! This has been one of the benefits of meeting the same couple again and again. The sex gets better and better as you get to know one-another and a friendship develops.

I would love to read your comments on this idea.