So stupid ole me was under the impression things were better but turns out you just created new accounts. So before I disappear in thin air I wanted to publicly post the reasons why we cannot be a unit under these circumstances.  

1) First, your brain is constantly changing in response to your thoughts, actions and experience, creating trails in your brain. By doing the same thing over and over, you strengthen those neural pathways – the trails in your brain – so that they fire on an automatic sequence. This strengthens porn’s hold on you, making it that much harder to try to break free. Hard to break not impossible 

2) Second, watching pornography bypasses and weakens the prefrontal cortex. This part of your brain is responsible for impulse control and good decision making. It also sends a powerful jolt of dopamine and other hormones directly into your limbic system a lower part of the brain where pleasure is experienced and where you act on impulse. When those chemicals (strong as any drug!) hit, you feel better for a short period of time. However, the desire to watch porn again returns with a vengeance. Not only that, over time, you damage the brain’s pleasure center so that you are less able to experience normal pleasure. 

3) No woman can compete with endless images and videos of online porn. Men who view porn tend to have less desire for their own spouse. When your wife, fiancé, or girlfriend discovers your porn viewing habits, trust is broken. Intimacy will decrease, leading to either years of rebuilding trust… or losing your wife’s trust and intimacy for good.

4) Extreme pleasure dulls the brain's sensitivity to dopamine, making your life less exciting and happy.

5) Absence of PMO tricks the brain into thinking something's wrong; it will consequently do everything it can to attract a mate, resulting in more "action" for you.

6) Masturbation is a instinctive and primitave, but unnecesary desire. By stopping it, you are lifting yourself, in a way, into a higher state of evolutionary advancement.

7) I'll hit you with one of the biggest reasons why you should stop watching porn right from the start.If you are not aware of it by now, it's about time you'll find out…

…yes, fapping to online porn can cause ED.In other words, it can make you unable to get it up when you are going for sex with a real life person. This is called porn induced ED.

8) Those HD streaming porn sites are so stimulating for the brains reward system that they literally can cause physical brain changes. It is that constant clicking form scene to scene that can override the brains natural satiation mechanism.

The dopamine levels are sky high for so long that the brain start protecting itself by reducing some of the dopamine receptors and this causes  desensitization…

…basically a numb pleasure response.

9) have noticed that you have problems climaxing with a real life partner, then you should know that it is the desensitized pleasure center, that I talked about in “Reason #8”, that is causing you to feel numb

10) Another good reason to stop masturbating to porn is because when you quit, you will get a sharper brain with a better functioning short term memory.

So how can this be?

Remember how fapping to porn causes a disrupted dopamine system in your brain. Well, guess what nerutransmitter is the key player in forming memories? Thats right, it is dopamine. Dopamine is highly involved in short term memory function, and if your dopamine system is disrupted, so is your ability to store memories.

11) Be a free man who wanders at will. No more a desperate slave with no control over self-fate.

12)Start feeling these intense emotions all the time, instead of being numbed to the beautiful world around you. No more the walking dead.

13) Instead of having erectile dysfunction and not finding sex as satisfying as porn, you will be the opposite. After months without porn in your life, your pleasure for sex will skyrocket.

14)will have more time to put in positive worthwhile activities. Most people that are addicted to extreme fapping waste an average or 8 hours per day , even sacrificing sleep to fulfil your cravings.

Ok, so there you have it. 14 good reasons why you should stop masturbating to porn today…

…or at least, give them a lot of thought today and then start tomorrow.

Why not give it a try for 90 days or so?

What do you have to lose?

You can always go back if you found it didn't give you any benefits at all, but my guess is, if you do try it, you do not want to go back…

…ever! But if you expect me to accept this behavior as normal for forever and always , then I’m sorry. I have tried to accept it and I cannot . Not only do I deserve better , I cannot handle the mental anguish especially when you choose digital pictures over me time and time again .