Hi everyone, by writing this I hope to reach out to people experienced in domination. And this time, especially you with experience in male chastity.

A few months ago I locked my boyfriend in a chastity device for the first time, and it has really changed the naturen of our relationship. Before that, he still wanted to take turns to be dominant in bed. That's how we started out years ago, we were both curious in bondage and we both wanted to try both sides of it. While he enjoyed being switch, I slowly started to become more dominant and it came to a point where I started to want him to fully submit to me all the time.

After lockig his Dick in a cage, he finally started to adapt to that lifestyle and became way more submissive than before. Not only in bed but also in our relationship in general. He's now cooking, cleaning, doing the dishes and so on, without complaining. He let me tie him up whenever I feel like it, maybe because he knows that's the only time I might let him out of his cage to have sex with me. He also started to accept taking a plug in his ass, and some toys causing a bit of pain, like nipple clamps and other things. He is also a lot more open to please me in bed in other ways than just penetration, and doesn't always expect to get any pleasure back in return. So in general, I am very happy and I feel like the chastity cage is the best invention ever :)

However, I have some issues that I wonder if anyone could help me with:

Sometimes he wakes up in the middle of the night being in a lot of pain. The cage doesn't stop him from getting a boner att night and it causes the ring around his balls to be pulled up and squeeze his balls to a point where he can't take it anymore and I'll have to unlock him until the morning. Is there any way to prevent this from happening?

I would really like to keep him in chastity for longer period of time than what I am right now. But I've heard it's not healthy, or maybe even dangerous for men not to cum on a reglar basis. Is this true? I've also heard that instead of getting an orgasm the "traditional way" guys can also ejaculate through the prostate. I really tried to make that happen by using different anal toys on him, but nothing seems to work. What can I do?

Very thankful for your help!

Love 

Hannah