Thoughts on Sidney's manipulativeness and dishonesty

A while ago, Sidney came up with the idea of creating a web site containing a series of videos of him doing all of his humiliating sissy things. Everyone found this idea very exciting. For Sidney's tormentors it would be a great source of amusement, and also a source of income if the site charged a fee for each video. For Sidney it raised the prospect of excruciating public exposure and humiliation, totally out of his control.

As always, such a prospect gave Sidney a quivering, ticklish sensation in his little thingy.

Plans were started to create the web site, but then Sidney spoiled it all when he expressed his worry that anybody could download the videos and they might get into the wrong hands and, once copied, no one would be able to control what happened to them. They could be distributed all over the place, and might end up being seen by people Sidney knows, like family, friends, or workmates. So, as so often happens when Sidney first agrees to a really fun plan but then chickens out, the idea was put on hold.

There is, however, one very simple answer to Sidney's concern about public exposure: 

"Won't that be JUST TOO BAD!"

It is a good answer to all the objections that Sidney is so good at raising when plans are made to embarrass him for being such a sissy. Yes, indeed: Won't that be TOO BAD FOR SIDNEY!

After all, what exactly is the problem? If someone accesses the videos, it's because they enjoy that kind of thing. So why shouldn't they be entitled to view Sidney's videos? If that person happens to be someone who knows Sidney, so what? It's true that their view of Sidney may change. (Then again, many people who know Sidney probably already suspect these things about him, and the videos would just confirm their suspicions.) 

True, the person looking at Sidney's videos would now have complete access into Sidney's deepest, darkest and most shameful secrets, and would certainly not look at him with any respect ever again. That would certainly make for some very different dynamics in Sidney's relationships with his family, his circle of friends, and his workmates. 

Ha ha ha, yes, things would certainly change for Sidney as he went about his day! But if anything, the new dynamics would be more reality-based, more truthful. Sidney would no longer be able to hide behind any silly pretense of being a man . Those pretenses are just lies, anyway. And lying about himself is exactly what Sidney HAS TO LEARN TO STOP DOING. It's truth time for Sidney!

For all these reasons, Sidney's fear of exposure and embarrassment is no reason at all to avoid posting information about him on the web. If anything, it provides a strong reason to GO AHEAD AND DO it. In fact, the greater Sidney's fear of exposure and embarrassment, the MORE reason there is to go ahead and post the information! 

Do not be intimidated by the raging tantrum that Sidney will predictably throw in order to try and get the posts removed. And certainly don't remove them! One of the "Rules for Sidney" that he knows very well is, "What gets posted about Sidney stays posted. No exceptions."

He WILL throw a fit, of course, and you should welcome this. It's a sure sign that you're on the right track, that you've hit a sensitive nerve and are penetrating those false defenses that Sidney has constructed around himself to avoid facing who and what he is. 

Yes, welcome Sidney's tantrums, and enjoy them! It can be great fun to see him helpless and angry and red-in-the-face. This can be one of the richest rewards of working with Sidney. Don't be reluctant to tease him. If he sees you enjoy his frustration, he'll become even more frustrated and angry, and the tantrum will intensify. That would be a justifiable reason to tease him even more! 

Ramp up the humiliation you inflict on Sidney bit by bit, steadily, relentlessly, and enjoy the expression of disbelief on his face and in his words as he realizes just what you are doing. Bring others into the process too. The larger the number of people laughing at Sidney, the worse it will make him feel. It's a truly virtuous cycle: ever increasing helplessness and humiliation for Sidney, lots of giggles and enjoyment for you and your friends.

Here, by the way, are some of the topics for videos that Sidney originally thought of making:

- Why I was named Sidney

- My sister and her friends discuss my penis

- When I am bad, I get spanked

- Oooh, let's stick THAT in Sidney's tush!

There are many, many more. In fact, a video really should be made for each and every fantasy that Sidney has. The purpose is quite simple. Sidney is not entitled to any privacy. He relinquished that right a long time ago with his sissy behavior. He has no right to privacy in his body, of course, but also not in his thoughts and feelings. Remember: IT'S TRUTH TIME FOR SIDNEY! In order for Sidney to stop lying about who he is, he needs to be open about who he is, and that means his deepest, darkest, most private and shameful thoughts and feelings. The ones he most dreads other people knowing about -- THOSE are precisely the ones he truly needs others to know about.