Please do not contact me without having read my entire profile. Please digest and think it over. If you can accept the totality of my situation then please do contact me. The links below are plain text more details about me and more pictures of me. It is VERY IMPORTANT that you read Further Reading About James.. You might have to type in the links below. My apologies.

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The lady described here is out there somewhere. I'm being completely honest, straight forward, and explanatory as necessary. I'll pursue what I desire period. Having disabilities doesn't make me a pariah or an outcast. Everyone says they want honesty. Well everything's spelled out in plain text here.

The lady who's right for me will have my absolute love, loyalty, respect, and adoration. I'm seeking love and long term relationship with an SSBBW 300 400 500 600lbs O\or Larger (super size big beautiful woman) who's happy with her body and not wanting to lose weight for any reason. I'm not at all attracted to slim women, never have been. 𝙄𝙩 𝙞𝙨𝙣'𝙩 𝙖 𝙛𝙚𝙩𝙞𝙨𝙝. 𝙄𝙩'𝙨 𝙖 𝙥𝙧𝙚𝙛𝙚𝙧𝙚𝙣𝙘𝙚. A large lady is what I want in my life to have, to hold, to be affectionate with. I'm looking for someone in or near the Greenville SC/Mauldin SC area.  I can be flexible about the locale for the right lady. If you're outside of the Greenville area (more than 20 minutes away) you'll have to pick me up somewhere near my home. A doctor told me I shouldn't attempt driving because my eyes are very light sensitive.

If you have a great personality and we get along well, that's what matters. Looks aren't important. I don't care about looks. I'm interested in someone close to my own age or older. I'm 46. Don't care how much older even 10+ 20+ years. An SSBBW granny is fine with me. 😃👍

I have disabilities going on and am unable to work. My apologies in advance, but traditional conventional dating won't be a possibility. The mental issues are OCD, agoraphobia, pseudobulbar affect, severe social anxiety disorder, scopophobia. These are things that affect me. They don't affect others or the world around me. I'm not hyper or high strung. I don't have outbursts. I just deal with things differently. I'm a very laid back and easy going individual. I can be very fun to talk to especially when I know a person well. The physical issues are a frozen right shoulder, mild spondylosis in my lower back, type 2 diabetes, A doctor told me I shouldn't attempt driving because my eyes are very light sensitive.

The Greenville Free Medical Clinic sees me quarterly and provides all of my medications to me for free. I'm also a SNAP/EBT recipient. I'm not a pit into which you'll throw money. I don't want anyone's money. I just want unconditional love and a happy life with that special someone. I'm trying for disability.

I'm currently living with relatives. They are helping me in what ways they can with room, board, and use of household amenities. Before that I was in Ohio with my late girlfriend who passed away in November 23rd of 2020. Afterward my relatives extricated me and are helping me.

I have a mix of low and high quality pictures. I don't try to smile in pictures. When I try to smile it looks cheezy and unacceptable. I still look exactly like that, just now I have some white in chin beard. Red hair (shaved like a military person), 4 inch chin beard, and mustache, 195lbs. My front teeth and smile are nice enough. I am however missing a couple of back teeth. I dress for comfort, colors, and graphics. 

I consider myself to be very open minded and worldly. I try to understand everyone's perspective, see things from their point of view. I don't subscribe to any religion. I'm spiritual and believe that there is something out there bigger than myself. I believe in maximum possible personal freedom. I'm generally a very laid back, live in the moment type of guy. I don't worry, stress, dwell on things. 

So now you have a very good picture of me and my situation. It's going to take a large, special, and unique lady to be in a loving long term relationship with me. But she is out there and we will find each other. If you're looking for sincere and real you're looking at it. I'm not after money or a booty call. I don't lie, don't cheat, or play games. Anything you want to know please message me and I'll kindly answer to the best of my ability. 😊

Please don't contact me if you are or have any of the following. I have dealt with these things in the past. I won't deal with them again.

+ If you're trying to lose weight. I'm seeking an SSBBW (super size big beautiful woman) who's happy with her body and not wanting to lose weight for any reason.

+ If you're separated and/or there's any possibility of you getting back together with your ex.

+ If you're taking care of a sick or dying ex-husband or ex-boyfriend because you feel obligated to do so.

+ If anyone would make it their business to break us up.

+ If you're a racist, a bigot, a troglodyte, stuck on dogmas, pushes your religious, political, social etc. views on everyone else.

+ If you're a drug addict. 

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Thanks for reading. 😊👍