I'm James. I'm being completely honest and plain spoken with this blog post and my ImageFap profile.I realuze IF's not a dating site lol. But here I can be as open, straight forward, and explanatory as necessary. I'm telling everything that anyone interested needs to know . 

I'm not at all attracted to slim women. Never have been at all. SSBBW are what turn me on. It's not just a sexual preferrence. This genuinely what makes me happy. I'm 45. I'm interested in someone close to my age. I'm ok with younger, but you should consider MY age. Looks aren't terribly important.  Personality IS important. I keep myself neatly trimmed and well groomed. I try.  I live in Mauldin SC. I'd like to meet someone living in Mauldin SC, Greenville SC, or nearby, not across the state or out of state if possible. 

Ideally for the body type I'd like to have a relationship with someone who's SSBBW, really short, big, round, and heavy. This isn't a fetish. It's a chemistry. I've never been turned on by slim average size women. If I'm not turned on then I'm wasting that person's time and mine.

Race doesn't matter to me. White, Mexican, pink with polka dots, if you have a great personality and we get along well, that's what matters. 

Things that turn me off are hairy legs, hair going up the belly, pretty much hair anywhere except on the head, in the armpits, and on the pussy. Yes I do actually like hair and shaved stubble in the armpits occasionally as a fetish. Also, cleanliness is a must. I have in two decades met with two women were nasty and stunk because of poor hygiene. Not going there again.

I'm 45, red hair (shaved like a military person), 4 inch chinbeard, and mustache, 215lbs. Like a lot of my family I fell into the trap of poor dental hygiene. My front teeth are nice enough. My back teeth are not pretty. I dress for comfort and colors. I'm usually always in flat brim baseball cap, tshirt, basketball shorts, a bracelet on each wrist, and steel skull biker-esque rings, and sneakers. I'm often told I look younger than I am.

I'm on SNAP benefits and I'm trying to get disability started for myself. I can't gurantee that SC and SSA will deem me eligible for disabilty benefits. I have OCD, agoraphobia, claustrophobia,  pseudobulbar affect, short term memory loss, frozen right shoulder, spondylosis in my lower back. I'm also unable to drive a motor vehicle due to very light sensitive eyes and astigmatism. I'm currently living with my grandparents who give me a room, use of household amenities, and rides to the free clinic and other places to acquire services.

I'm generally a very laid back, live in the moment type of guy. I'm also very eccentric and somewhat weird. I'm not high strung. I do tend not to have patience with people in public. Repetive noises cause almost like a static in my mind blocking my ability to think and/or focus to some extent. I count things like closing doors and pressing buttons. When I do focus on doing things I do them like an anal perfectiontist. These things are things that are subjective to me. They don't generally affect others. I'm generally easy to get along with although I have some eccentric ways.

I do believe in Gods/Goddesses. I don't subscribe to any religion. I'm a polytheist. I pray to multiple Gods. I follow the law and live my life the way I see fit. I only socialize when I choose to do so. Most days I'm off to myself. I'm a very introverted person. 

I consider myself to be very open minded, worldly, willing to try new things. I love trying new foods. I love going to new places. I like being in downtown areas and looking inside buildings that are open to the public and/or allow the public to tour them. I like horror books and movies, gag anime cartoons movies slapstick comedy, skull rings jewelry drawings etc, certain plushies. I like flipping through fashion magazines and looking at the backgound photography and styles. I watch fashion shows on YouTube. I'm trying to learn to sketch on location/urban sketch which is buildings, inside coffee shops etc.  If you want to see some of the things I like check out my Pinterest profile below.

 Pinterest Profile

 https://www.pinterest.com/dangerousmind7/_saved/

This is all I can think of to post here for now. I'll update it if more comes to mind. If you're interested in talking to me then message me on ImageFap. We can start there. 

Please don't contact me if you are any of the following or they apply to you. I have dealt with these things in the past. I won't deal with them again.

+ You're a high strung/high maintenance indivdual.

+ If you have a bad attitude and/or a God complex.

+ If you're a drug addict. 

+ If you have any family or friends who would make it their business to break us up because they don't agree with

    us being together for whatever reason.

+ If you're the type of person who pushes your religious, political, social etc. views on everyone else.

+ If you have hairy legs, hair on the belly nipples etc. 

 + If you're unclean/have poor hygiene.