Ejaculation, is assumed to be the male orgasm. At the ripe old age of 35 I discovered differently. 

It was also the first time I had been blown to ejaculation, now orgasm. Yes it was the first time I had used a mint flavoured condom.  I recommend anyone who has trouble convincing their partner to give them a proper blow job, get some.  When she discovered how much I enjoyed cumming in her mouth it didn’t ctake long for the condom to disappear.

  Until then, as enjoyable as ejaculation is, I had no clue how much pleasure an orgasm is. 

  I did earn the blow job.  She was diagnosed with a nerve disease which robbed her of some vulval sensation making her orgasm impossible. After months of trying and a fortuitous news item, a community group teaching women to orgasm through the panting technique, I found a spot which caused an involuntary twitching of her leg. Licking this spot while she panted gave her a powerful prolonged orgasm bigger and stronger and longer than she had ever had.

For all of our sex life together she achieved orgasm most times with a little digital stimulation while fucking. From then on fucking alternated between oral and vaginal with our massive orgasms orally.  She didn’t swallow but I was still orgasming while she spat so didn’t really care.