Not to sound like a tool, but I'm a damn good hubby - attentive, successful, generous, well-off, complimentary, doting, attractive, fit, considerate, great cock, humorous, loyal, fun, energetic, etc.  and I sit here on my 30+ wedding anniversary looking at porn because after a gourmet dinner, drawing a hot bath, nice gifts, etc. the wife is tired.  Sorry for the self-pity but I'm sick of this shit!  All I asked for was a little romance on a special day and this is what I get.  Should have thought twice when marrying an older prude and and thought three times when being the nice guy and staying committed when I did not have too.  Thanks for anyone who took a moment to listen to this big tool take a rare moment to whine.