Ok, for anybody who might care, here are my "preferences" for partners, not that I am looking for anybody:
(I had a girlfriend once, she was the love of my life but after only two months she broke up with me and I never really recovered from that, despite the fact that that was a few years ago)

The ideal partner for me could be either male or female, I don't care.

As for "looks", I prefer people who are considered "ugly" by others. I guess that there is some deep psychological reason for that preference, maybe because most "ugly" people don't really have any friends (just like me) and I can "relate" to them.

If my "partner" would be female, I would very much prefer a woman with small breasts, because you can't really hug somebody with huge brests! And I like long and intense hugs!
Hugs, making out and cuddling are the most important things to me!
It's probably because I never really felt loved by my mother or something like that. (As my username implies, I have some issues ).

My ideal partner would also have to be OK with the fact that I cum very quickly .

And my ideal partner would of course have to be trustworthy and honest and all of that ...