This blog is sort of a sequel to my previous blog 'Why porn isn't immoral'

Nowadays some politicians try to give attention to moral values. For some people all or most pornography is immoral. I read about couples where husband and wife no longer have sex with each other, instead they masturbate separately watching internet-porn. Society is becoming more and more individualistic. When a man’s girlfriend or wife doesn’t fit a certain porn-profile, they go look for this profile on the internet. Is this a sad thing? Does pornography alienate people from each other?

I guess it does. Or, to put it in a better way: people don’t know how to handle porn in their lives. A lot of the words that circulate on this site seems like the talk of macho-men and –women. It’s like here they can be sexual beings who want to fuck the whole world and party naked all the time, but only on the internet, only as an avatar. Not many people, though everybody’s anonymous, dare to show true emotions, dare to be honest. While this is a place where you can be totally honest. On any other social site you got to hide that you are a porn-fan. If you would believe Myspace and Facebook, almost nobody seems to like porn. People like movies, music, art, comics etc. but (almost) nobody seems to like MET-art, or Seventeen, Abby Winters, Sapphic Erotica, Femjoy…

I like to watch Pinochio because it touches my hearth. I like to watch pics and movies with naked girls, with very explicit sex because they touch my penis. This does not mean that every woman is just a vagina, ass and tits for me. If I watch Kate Winslet in ‘Little Children’, I like her because she’s a great actress. She looks great, but she touches my hearth, rather then my penis.

People can’t handle porn. Sure, everybody can masturbate, but they can’t talk about it to their lovers. Can you imagine how absurd the situation might be? Let’s say: John and Lisa live together for more than ten years. They don’t have sex with each other anymore. Instead they masturbate separately and secretly. So they can say to each other that they really like Kate Winslet in ‘Little Children’, but John can’t say to Lisa how horny he gets when he sees Saskia being fucked by Roman. He’s afraid she might think that he’s comparing her with a porngirl. Lisa on the other hand, also likes to see Saskia and Roman, but is afraid to tell John. They both have profiles on imagefap and are even fans of each other without knowing they don’t even have to go on the internet to share their porn-interest.

I use my own laptop to surf on the internet. No-one else uses my laptop. I never clear my browsing history, except when I reach out for porn. Sometimes I don’t understand it myself. I’m interested in a whole lot of things. One of these things is pornography. I can talk about all of my interests to almost everybody, except for that one interest that sometimes blows my mind away. If I would have a girlfriend, I would be John. If Lisa would ask me, sincerely with love, what kind of porn I like, I’d probably get all red and turn my head away.

 And that’s why porn alienates people from each other, while it could bring them together. In my dreams I meet a girl on imagefap and we start writing to each other about porn. Funny things, silly quotes, horny dreams… whatever. After a while we meet ‘in real life’ and besides having sex, we also watch porn together and are feeling happy in doing so. I can say to her that there are so many nude, cute, horny girls on the internet and instead of being jealous and hurt, she asks me why I like those girls and she wants to see them too. Not because she’s a lesbian, but for my sexual benefit she seeks out for girls on the internet, just as I seek for boys and porn she might like. 

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