How my hubby describes his life now:

 " When you're an Aby, you have an entirely different perspective on the world. You're NOT an adult anymore, you have NO privacy, and you have NO say in anything.

If you get troublesome, Mommy puts you in restraints to manage your behaviour.

You get breastfed, and junkfoods go bye-bye.You get to speak only when Mommy allows, when she takes the soother out of your mouth.

The ONLY times you see the inside of a bathroom are when you are being bathed/showered.

If you try tampering with your diaper or pleasuring yourself, Mommy locks your hands in mitts to ensure you can't misbehave.

Diapers become your new 'normal', and Mommy doesn't care how much you fuss and resist...sooner or later, your bladder lets go, and if you try holding back otherwise, Mommy can always put some medicine up your bottom to ensure you fill your diaper whether you want to or not.

Being an Aby means completely abdicating control over your life, every aspect of it.

But, it also means lots of love, care and attention...and diaper-checks. "

 My little hubby readily admits that the Reality he's experiencing now is something extremely different from the fantasies and daydreams he used to have. 

 We do use a 'safe-word' but not in the usual BDSM context.

 Instead it's a clear-cut signal if he's in serious physical distress for any reason at any time. There's times when he has trouble speaking, so creating a one-word 'Trouble-Alert' makes things easier and safer for him.

 That aside, he was surprised at how completely and sincerely I would step in as his Mommy-Wife. He doesn't complain--though at times he's 'fussy' and 'difficult', but he's still getting used to being back to living under Mommy's watchful eye and having his life entirely controlled by a Mommy. We do frequently talk about it, as he is still coming to terms with it all, and we enjoy our little talks...he's still pretty stunned that I took to being his Mommy-Wife so readily and totally. LOL

 He is experiencing Regression, the degree varies from day to day and what's actually going on, but I love seeing it and when he's regressed, even to a small degree, his stress levels drop considerably, which is always a good thing.

 Being a Mommy-Wife has really enhanced my ability to multi-task, which has come in very handy regarding business operation, of course.

 Breastfeeding, I'm having him nurse longer and have started feeding him a half-hour earlier than previously. While it's still early, my milk production has begun to increase and in-time it's my hope the extra milk will help my little man gain some proper body-mass and muscle. I do make sure he gets a proper amount of exercise, but not to the point of overdoing things, I want to help him and not hurt him.