...1. I'll keep updating this notebook ... 1. 2. 3.... In a cage or without a cage ... it doesn't matter to me. Same result. No erection, no ejaculation, no orgasm. There's just sweet tension. The cage is uncomfortable because it is difficult to attach of to the tiny bag.When I am a property, I live only for her. It increases my happy tension. That's why I feel this makes my wife happy. The sad thing is that it turns out who has the existence for whose existence. Consumer society is a lie ... We are be for companies, for institutions ... It is better to be a servant of a Lady than to these institutions who even hate us for this also. " by UnicornFantasy1 over 7 years ago... There are three levels of submission. Bottom as defined by me, means a person who likes to take the role of submission but just for play in the bedroom. The bottom doesn't give up control per se they just play a part or roleplay. A submissive is defined as unresistingly or humbly obedient person. I believe submissives will do anything within their power (and within their negotiated limits) to please their dominant. A slave on the other hand is defined as a person entirely under the domination of some influence or person. Or in my words a slave has no rights or limits and don't own even own the clothes on their backs. That is the Mistresses right to allow the slaves the clothes or whatever the case maybe. Now that I'm through defining the three levels of submission, I will finally start on with my issue. Most but not all of the so called submissives I have met seems to be glorified bottoms instead of real submissives. In other words, bottoms that just want sex. Now I understand everyone has their needs but come on be real with yourself and other people, you are not submissives. You want control of your orgasm whenever YOU want it because your certainly not fooling me or anyone else that is real in the lifestyle. Anyway these so called submissives waste all these poor peoples time try to "talk them into" doing what they want." In my experience, this is decided by the partners. And also who wants to compromise. And what trade-offs.

I have ever liked any commitment. I had all three to me.

Today, the third is right for me. But it may not be for my partner.

And, after all, love is the first to defeat and arrange everything.

I know the game is different, but I don't play ...

Why would you give up? You are the servant's fetish. And your fetish is the servant's fetish ONLY.