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The Real Me Behind nerdyiowaboy
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First off, I have special needs. I have ADHD (Attention-Deficit Hyperactive Disorder), and I have Asperger's, which is a form of autism, on the autism spectrum. I also have mental illness, as I suffer from major depression. I also suffer with Type 2 Diabetes.
I do not drive. With that being said, I do not have a car, nor do I have a driver's license.
When it comes to the financial and money situation, I am low-income, as I do not work as I get SSI every month.
With all that out of the way, it is time to say a little about myself. I was born in Iowa Falls, Iowa on January 21, 1983. I never knew my real parents, so because of that, I suffer with abandonment problems, which have affected my relationships in the past. I was adopted into a Catholic family, as I was the youngest of 5 kids in that family. I was raised in the country, so I have country boy roots, and a lot of them were about treating women with love, respect, and dignity. Also growing up, I was a victim of bullying in school, as I was bullied for my special needs. I almost committed suicide when I was 16. It was my high school years that started the depression. I graduated with a high school diploma on May 19th, 2002 from Atlantic High School in Atlantic, Iowa.
Now a bit about my attributes. A lot of my close friends would tell you that I have a good sense of humor, and that I have a really good singing voice. So if you like a man with a sense of humor, who can sing and serenade you with songs, then I am your guy. I consider myself a nerd gamer guy, as I like to play video games, plus I play a lot of various board and card games. So if you dig nerdy gamer guys, that's a huge plus in my book. I try to dance, even though I'm not the best at it. I am not a judgmental person, and I have never been judgmental. I have a moral code that I follow, and a lot of my decision making is based off of it. I do consider myself blunt, and brutally honest, and I'm not afraid to tell it like it s. I may not always have a lot of $, but I try to make due with what I have to be romantic to a woman. I have believed that there is no such thing as "treating a woman like a princess or a queen." To me, it makes them feel more superior, and they are on a pedestal, and I am not like that. I've believed that in a relationship, it is always 50-50. The relationship status is equal. No one is above or below their partner.
When it comes to women, for starters, I could care less about looks. To me, looks are just a cosmetic mask of what their true nature is. I want a woman who is caring, understanding, loyal, very trustworthy, will not take advantage of me, non-religious and non-conservative. I also want a woman who is not into the whole "saving self for marriage" ordeal. I don't fly that way. I also want a woman who drives a car, and can actually make the time and the effort for me, and to come visit me. I also want a woman who isn't a drama queen, or loves to get involved in gossip, or other people's drama. I also would like a woman who will let me have female friends, even going as far as to let those friends visit me.
Now there are things in a woman that are massive deal breakers. I have narrowed it down to this list.
1. Scammers/Spammers
2. Escort Girls/Cam Girls
3. Money Hogs and Sugar Babies (Aka women who are only on here for money, and not interested in love)
4. Women who want me to chat with them on Google Hangout or any other place besides POF.
5. Women with a criminal history. Now for things like simple misdemeanors, that's all good. But I'm talking that I won't date a woman who has felonies, especially the violent types. I am including females who are on the sex offender registry.
6. Women who think that they are entitled and that they feel that they are a princess or a queen or a goddess. I don't go for that.
7. Women who are stuck-up. Need I say more?
8. Women who use men, cheat on men, and are massive drama queens.
9. Women who have a history of abusing men, cheating on men, and other negative stuff with men.
10. Women who are judgmental, and are fat shamers, and bullies of those who have special needs and mental illness.
11. Clingy women. I don't need to say why, as you can figure it out.
12. Women with no car, and no desire to ever meet me in person.
13. Women who are religious, conservative, and believe in the whole saving self for marriage.
14. Women who are Trump supporters! Need I say more.
Anyway, if you've read all this, and you like what you read, PLEASE MESSAGE ME!!!!!!
Thanks for taking the time to read my profile. I hope you learned a bit about me, and have made your decision about me
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Posted on : Feb 28, 2020
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