Sometimes I have the opportunity to counsel faculty in my office. I offer honest professional advice when I can, but often all I can do is listen. A certain second year adjunct professor was in my office asking for my honest advice about what to do when students make themselves sexually available to him. I asked him what he meant, and he fumbled to show me an image on his phone that he could neither erase nor share with his wife of one year.

 "This is the kind of shit I am dealing with... and it is starting to seriously keep me *up at night. She somehow got my number and i want to tell her to stop... but I don't want her to stop. How far should I let this go?"

I told him, in all honesty, he was probably going to end up having sex with her. Unless he could be honest about it with himself and face down the action of bringing the HR department into it. He sounded very hesitant to do the latter. And he seemed solumly resigned to the former.

 Such is life for horny 30 something professors who are thinking with their penises. Such is life for naughty 19 year old coed polysci students.