It all started in the early 90s i was dating a girl named Paula. She liked me as a friend and some one to have around but not like a boyfriend. So a way for her to have me around and to not have to have much sex with, She turned me on to masturbating for her. She would sit at the end of her bed fully dressed and smoking cigs. she would have me completely naked and laying on her bed. I would use some baby oil as lube and i would start out slowly stroking my dick. she would tell me to speed up and slow down, as she was in control of my orgasm. Then when I would get close to cumming she would have me slow down so she could watch everything happening. After I came on my hands and stomach she would have me use my cum as lube to cum for her again. If I was real lucky she would sit on my face while I masturbated, But I had to make her cum before I was allowed to cum. So that's how I got in to masturbating for women and being a sub. Im not into mean and rude people, I don't like being talked down to, but at the same time I like when women tell me how little my dick is while having sex.