I married a submissive worm. I am in a domme/sub, or FemDom marriage. What is a FemDom marriage? To begin with, FemDom is short for female domination - which is the hitherto agreed domination of the man by the woman on a 24/7 basis. This means that the woman controls everything about the relationship, and all that matters is what the woman wants. The man's feelings or thoughts do not count. It is a consensual relationship that is willingly agreed to by the man before the marriage. It is therefore usually submissive males who enter into such relationships. Having said that, it does not mean that the man is a wimp - many submissive males are quite macho to other people, and are only submissive to their wives.

A real Femdom marriage is neither a normal loving relationship, nor is it loving dominance. Love doesn't come into it, only dominance and submission. The woman feels nothing for the man except contempt and disgust, and treats him accordingly. This treatment is on a day-to-day basis. No attempt is made to hide the nature of the relationship from others, within the accepted parallels of social interchange. As many people as possible should come to know that it is the woman who is in charge.

Some dominant women make it a role-playing thing, dressing up in leather or rubber, and frequently giving the man a good whipping. Many will penetrate the man with strap-on dildos. This sort of thing is usually done by dominatrixes, many times on a professional basis. It is a common male fantasy. But real FemDom is not about indulging men's fantasies; it is about real female control of the male in every aspect of the marriage. Often it could be seen as mundane, as there is little sexuality involved. It is real FemDom, carried out by a real dominant woman.

That is how it is in my marriage. The man I married is a submissive worm. We have such a FemDom marriage. I feel nothing for him. I keep him naked & collared when at home, insist he eats all his food from a dogbowl, and have him sleep on the floor naked every night. All my husband is to me is a toilet. I use his mouth to piss in each day, and he drinks it all. Whenever the opportunity presents itself, I also enjoy seeing other people use his mouth as a toilet. I really do feel nothing for him. Every day I remind him that all he is to me is a toilet, and that I feel nothing for him. In some photos he looks wretched, but in reality he is happy with the way things are.

Being dominant with my husband does not mean that I don't have sex with other men. I am a total slut and I've cuckolded him by having sex with over 950 other men so far. I especially love getting naked and sucking cocks. My husband has to lick-up the other men's spunk after they've used me. I never let him have sex with me himself these days, so he constantly wanks like an animal.

Thankfully for sluts like me there are weak men like him to get married to. We don't marry them for love; we marry them for the freedom that having a pathetic worm can give us. And we feel total contempt for them.