It is difficult to explain. I didn't choose this fetish. Nor was I even aware at first that it was a fetish. As a horny teenager, with limited access to porn, I began collecting pictures of attractive women that turned me on, to masturbate to. One day I realized that a disproportionate number of the pictures showed women smoking. Until then I no suspicion that I found anything about smoking attractive.

Though we use the broad term "smoking fetish" there are a wide variety of behaviors which it actually covers. Just as there are "breast men" and "butt men" who are attracted primarily by particular parts of the body, and a majority who find either arousing under appropriate circumstances, so are there separate attractions within the act of smoking. Some people like the glamor aspects, the sophisticated actress type especially with a holder. There are those aroused by forced smoking - the idea of being made to do so against their will. Others are particularly aroused by the moment of a cigarette being lit or the exhale. And of course there are those for whom cigars, pipes or vaping are an excitement.

For myself,  I like simplicity, a short or average-sized cigarette hanging from the mouth (a "dangle" in smoking-fetish parlance). The longer someone keeps the cigarette in their mouth the more it turns me on. Ideally they willl only remove it to ash. I want someone who enjoys smoking. I am attracted by the idea of playing with their addiction .. seeing what they are prepared to do if deprived of cigarettes, but at the same time I want smoking to be their choice, as an adult. I am a bit hypocrtical here because I am very aroused by smoking pregnant women, and of course their baby has no choice, but that doesn't stop it exciting me. The more someone smokes the better. Nothing is more disappointing to learn that someone who calls themself a smoker only partakes of three cigarettes a week. 

Of course I am fully aware of the fact smoking is a filthy disgusting habbit with health implications - even if I was not there are more than enough people who regard it as their duty to enlighten me on these aspects. The other day someone spent several minutes lecturing me on what a nasty, dirty, unpleasant thing smoking was to do. I might have taken his comments slightly more seriously had we both not been in a scat chatroom at the time - i guess it only goes to show that what someone finds dirty is clearly relative. 

Even the dirtiness of smoking can be part of its attraction for me. I love women who are not afraid of their smoking detritus and it is incredibly arousing to find a woman who will have the contents of a full ashtray tipped and rubbed into her body, especially whilst she is still smoking. 

Whilst I know others would disagree, for me the ultimate sign of slutiness is a cigarette and a non-smoker cannot achieve that slutwhore status. First there is the total disregard for health in pursuit of pleasure. It doesn't matter how much of a bareback cumdump you are, if you are not a smoker you are not a full risk taker, not wholly opening yourself up to pleasure or indeed fully giving pleasure to others - given those of us who want our sexual partners to be smokers - who want the person sucking our cock to blow smoke over it.

So what turns me on are smokers, hearing about their habbit, especially if they have combined it with their sex lives. For that reason, just being another smoking-fetishist doesn't interest me unless you also smoke. I would rather talk to a smoker who only shares a few of my interests than a non-smoker who shares them all. Most of all I want to hear from smokers who are themselves excited by the knowledge that their smoking arouses me and are happy to share details of it, so that we can both get off.