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Massage is a good way to learn how to give pleasure to your partner, not only just pressure relief, but body to body massage is better as it is about the sensation of skin against skin.
Body to body is best, feeling the sensation of eachothers skin is a better massage than pressure against the joints from hands alone, because it is about improving blood circulation and heat retention so the nerve endings experience the sensation of skin contact rather than feeling like you just got indoors on a cold snowy day.
The best agents for getting the blood circulation and body heat do achieve this is petroleum jelly, baby oil (Mineral Oil) while good for the skin is not actually an insulating agent to the skin, as its too watery.
Looking at different cultures in both cold and hot climates, the Intuits and Native Far East Russian peoples used animal fats for insulation as did Europeans and other cold weather environments where people lived, in hot weather environments, the reason is protecting against bacteria and keeping insects away, improving circulation in both inviroments, from Egypt, to Greece, to Rome, to Timbuktu and Kano and more, the Ottamans picked up on this practice of Saharan, Afro Mediteranean and European cultures.
To get skin into shape, non breakage is needed, insulating agents are the benefits of Petroleum Jelly, skin breakage and wrinkles are not signs of ageing but signs of bad skin care.
Drinking lots of water and hot showers help to oxygenate the skin and then applying Petroleum Jelly will insulate the skin.
Physical properties[edit]
Petroleum jelly is a mixture of hydrocarbons, having a melting point usually within a few degrees of human body temperature, which is approximately 37 °C (99 °F).[4] It is flammable only when heated to liquid; then the fumes will light, not the liquid itself, so a wick material like leaves, bark, or small twigs is needed to ignite petroleum jelly. It is colorless, or of a pale yellow color (when not highly distilled), translucent, and devoid of taste and smell when pure. It does not oxidize on exposure to the air and is not readily acted on by chemical reagents. It is insoluble in water. It is soluble in dichloromethane, chloroform, benzene, diethyl ether, carbon disulfide and oil of turpentine.[1][5]
Depending on the specific application of petroleum jelly, it may be USP, B.P., or Ph. Eur. grade. This pertains to the processing and handling of the petroleum jelly so it is suitable for medicinal and personal care applications.
Petroleum jelly's effectiveness in accelerating wound healing stems from its sealing effect on cuts and burns, which inhibits germs from getting into the wound and keeps the injured area supple by preventing the skin's moisture from evaporating.
Petroleum jelly is commonly used as a personal lubricant, although it is not recommended for use with condoms during sexual activity because it dissolves latex and thus increases the chance of rupture. On the other hand, it does not dry out like water-based lubricants, and has a distinctive "feel", different from that of K-Y and related methylcellulose products
1. Drink lots of water
2. Take a hot shower together
3. Towel dry well before the massage.
4. Use Petroleum Jelly all over the body, it will melt to skin temperature, massage the petroleum into the palm of your hands before applying it to eachothers bodies.
A good back massage applying the petroleum.
Feeling your partners skin on the palm of your hands, body heat from the hands will gradually warm up using the petroleum on your partners back their skin will feel the benefits of both your body heat stimulating theirs.
Body to body massage, apply as much petroleum jelly on your partners body and gently massage it with your own body or hands.
Feeling the sensation of the skin not only heightens the arousal but relaxes either nervous people or first timers for both male and female, the sensation of direct skin on skin stimulation helps to relax the urgency and delay undue over-sensation due to the insulation properties helping both peoples skin interact with eachother rather than oily or dry skin on skin contact, you want to be sharing your pheromones with eachother not blocking them.
Gradually you will learn what each partner likes in touching and arousal to their skin and inhibitions about being touched in certain areas will subside, however not all heterosexual people enjoy anal play of any kind it is not an inhibition at all, however bisexual and LGBT people may like this.
Positions can either be lady on top or man on top, with the man on top the man and woman can enjoy the sensation of the penis against the vagina without penatration, getting used to the feel of the vagina without entering will lessen anxiety and about performance as both partners get used to eachother bodies, using the jelly against the vagina will also help the lady learn about her body.
Anxiety as well as stimulation can lead to premature ejaculation so not just learning how to, but controlling the environment to stimulate body sensation is needed, while using condoms is not advised with oil based lubricants partners who do not wish to use any type of barrier protection will be able to get used to the normal body temprature when entering the vagina which is different from the outside barrier of skin, it is an internal organ rather than an external one.
Woman on top position while the man may enjoy the sensation of the lady pressing her breasts against his chest, female arousal needs to be learnt from the male.
Many women seem not to learn how their bodies actually function and think it is like an alien compared to the male body which they think is easily stimulated and theirs hard to stimulate, watching adult movies you will see that older female actresses will apply pressure on their bodies while younger female actresses will not in most cases even be touching their bodies or erogenous zones, lightly stroking their vagina and rarely making clitoral contact, there is not pressure or real contact made at all, as humans the bodies of male and female are only separated by chromosomes hence the same type of self pleasure and giving or receiving can in all fact be made, society teaches women to be coy and shy to the point of tearing your hair out in frustration of all the preconceived notions women and men give about their bodies before they have even actually had sex.
Womens bodies react the same, the reason is actually changes in the magnetic field of the planet, seasons, cold weather effects that protecting the skin against help to prevent, but society wants to control and that is what needs to be removed as the mental barrier preventing most young adult women from experiencing an enjoyable first time or sex for years after with any partner.
Applying pressure in the same way as a man would to female erogenous zones will result in the same pleasure rather than denial of sensation, hard sex is not needed, but the pressure of contact, sex should be sensual and erotic not hard rutting like an animal.
Women need to learn that it is not bad to actually touch and feel their bodies and muscles, the clitoris while similar to male erectile tissue in having the same properties does not have an opening for a uthera, so the tissue should be treated no differently or complaining about it being too sensitive to be touched, it is not too sensitive at all and hard pressure in the same way a woman or man would to a mans erect penis during mutual masturbation adjusting pressure in the same way until you learn about eachothers bodies, as said above using the jelly against a womans vagina will work in the same way as a mans penis and help the lady learn about her body, lessen sensitivity and increase heat and nerve receptiveness.
After the massage, apply sunblock, avoiding direct sunlight and instead use saunas or heated living room, bedroom or bathroom, it is better than tanning; a day roasting the skin or a day spent against another persons skin, most people will choose the company of someone elses skin against themselves.
Contrary to popular belief oils on the skin do not cause sun burn, it is just being in the sun too long which damages the skin, applying sun block in the same way with massage will also help couples bond together taking care of eachothers health.
