My hubby is a cd, sissy, sub bi. I have found panties,
stockings, heels in his car. He is tall 6'2". The sizes tell me those
could be for a woman if he has a girl outside. I also found some DVDs,
shemale, tranny, cd, etc but no gay.
He does not know I know his secret. I would not tell him I know that
because I do not want a rift between us and I'd keep my family in peace.
I bet he feels horny though he wears the sort of things you can
imagine and I d not know if his secretary is the woman he found as an
understanding woman to enjoy it all with.
My hubby may have a very varied sex. I am afraid to mention my
suspicions to him for fear of him making life more difficult for us, for
my family. I hope if I can keep him in my life.
I do not know if his man bothers him often and gives him odd bit of
odd stuff at times. Vibrator, strapon or real one up his rear, wearing
erotic lingerie, heels, cloth in the place where nobody knows
masturbating, fingering maybe bondage.
I did not see my hubby was girly before since we married. He is still
conservative now. And he is kinda dom in his business. He owns his
business. but yea the only female suspect is his secretary.
I feel so repulsed and frustrated but that turns on me too. I
discovered my hubby's fetish, I was so angry and yet turned on later. I
would not kick him out and I do not want to have an open arrangement
after that and no willing to became good friends instead of hubby and
wife.
Since I found his secret, I getting into shemale, cd things and
imagine how he is used by his man. I could accept others cross dressing,
but not my hubby but what weird is I do not care to imagine other cd or
tranny as my hubby! when I watch porn or your guys pics, I always think
which one close to my hubby's style and the crazy images in my mind are
also including he became a tranny for his man and used as the man's
woman. After i found my hubby's fetish, I been with a tranny. you can
read this unique expereince in my story.
Yes the problem is I am not dom. With him, I always expect he can do
more dom things in our private time. Even I could be open to his secret
but I do not think I can become dom for him. I do live with my hubby so
it is still a major problem - not telling him the whole truth i found -
but if we were co-habit.................. no
I want to understand my hubby without risking exposure, it may help
to chat with like minded men or any woman who has similar hubby or bf on
this site