Well so after a nice dinner and some wine last night I put on my best lingerie and heels and gave husband a night to remember. Straight after I asked him to tell me his fantasies, to tell me what he thinks about when he is getting himself excited whatever it might be, however odd it might sound. Weirdly after nearly 13 years of marriage it is not something we had ever done whch probably explains our sporadic sex life lol

Well they were all along pretty standard themes - my best friend better be careful around him - but the most interesting is that he fantasies about me with other men sometimes :-)

So I took a deep breath and I asked him if he liked the idea of me being with a big powerful dominant black man and he went all quiet but started to get hard again - I could not let that go to waste so gave him a lovely blow job just to help cement that idea a little :-)

Once I had finished that I told him that given the right circumstances and the right man, if he really likes the idea and thinks he could cope with it, then I could see myself living that fantasy out for him.

Such a good wife and so generous just thinking of husband and living out his fantasies aren't I ? ;-)

So I guess I will now see if in the cold light of day, without me sexed up wriggling in his lap he really is going to consider it - I know I am going to remind him lol

Wish me luck 

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