thats why i think its bullshit. i have known several men who have dressed up as women for Halloween (wow.. only 9 days till the next one), even in sexy underwear and such. ive even helped dress a couple of them... picked out what they wore
they let tons of people take pictures. no one really cares. once you do the sex stuff.... thats a different story. its like, "i will show you boss these photos"... "go ahead, he has probably done it too."
but you also dont seem that reluctant either. you want to do it.